I am a 65 (shortly to be 66)happily married lady. I have worked all my adult life as a legal secretary. I am now semi retired. My husband is disabled due to a back problem and I often find myself on my own in the evenings. We have three married sons and three granddaughters and one grandson who we look after, take out, generally do nanny and grandad things with them, cinema, park, swings, pony riding etc. I have obviously babysat for my grandchildren but for no-one else.